Carrie Ann Inaba: I Met My Fiance Online!

First Published: October 26, 2011 2:43 PM EDT Credit: Access Hollywood Caption Carrie Ann Inaba stops by Access Hollywood Live on October 25, 2011LOS ANGELES, Calif. -- After many attempts to find love the traditional way, Dancing with the Stars judge Carrie Ann Inaba went online to meet the right guy and it worked! I met him on eHarmony! Carrie Ann told Billy Bush and Kit Hoover on Tuesdays Access Hollywood Live when asked about fiance Jesse Sloan. I was dating all these younger guys. I was like, Maybe I need to change it up a little, the 43-year-old star said. While creating her online profile, the DWTS judge who got engaged in March initially kept her identity secret. I didnt put up a picture, I didnt put anything about who I was, she explained, adding that she was very forthright about what she wanted from a suitor. I was like, You need to be sexy. I need to be attracted to you. I really put exactly what I wanted. I love cats! After laying eyes on Jesses profile, Carrie Ann said felt something special. He was the one they sent me. It just felt familiar, she told Billy and Kit. In his picture, I felt like I already knew him. He took a risk because he didnt know what I looked like or anything. After months of exchanging e-mails and still not showing Jesse what she looked like or revealing who she was Carrie Ann took the plunge. A few months later, I finally sent a picture. [It was] me in Hawaii with no makeup, she continued. We finally went out [on] a supervised date. We went over to my friends house. It was awesome! I cant believe I just shared that with you! [Its] because you guys have those warm eyes, she told Billy and Kit. Though theyve been engaged for months, the DWTS judge who appears on the November cover of Natural Health magazine said an actual wedding ceremony is a bit in limbo. I dont know, Im not a good wedding planner, I suck I dont want to plan, she said. Im doing private I wanna do backyard and I wanna do beach. A walk down the aisle might be on the backburner, but expanding her family is not. Trying for a baby, absolutely, she said with a smile. Whichever comes first is fine. We dont have to be married to have the baby. My age at 43, I have to get moving on the baby. The wedding can come later. Also on Tuesdays show, Carrie Ann weighed in on Chaz Bonos elimination and his claim that he was unfairly judged at times during the competition. I commended Chaz on what he was doing, because what he was doing was very important in the larger scope of life, but the scoring has to do with what theyre doing dance-wise. We are able to separate the two, we can do that, she said. Were able to look at the dance and just judge the dance, and not what theyre going through personally I actually thought we were pretty kind in general this year. Adding, Sometimes people get offended by what we say, it happens. We have to judge, our job is to judge. Copyright 2011 by NBC Universal, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.